Showing up, year after year
Shawn in the Community
The work is bigger than any one room. Shawn shows up for families, caregivers, and the partners who help a community feel more prepared.
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A WEEKLY VIDEO SERIES.
BJ’s Weekly Retirement Chat.
BJ is the friendly host who takes on the retirement questions families actually ask, one short video each week. Practical, plain-spoken, and a little fun.
Featured episode
The newest conversation from BJ.

BJ shares a holiday gift idea: Shawn’s books, When Love Becomes Caregiving and Leave Nothing to Chance, to help families have meaningful planning conversations.
Preparation is love in action.
Older Episodes
Earlier conversations are collected here; new episodes will appear in the featured spot above.
Episode 2: Who Would Speak for You?
BJ asks who would make your decisions if you couldn't speak for yourself, and explains how a power of attorney, healthcare directive, and organized records can help make your wishes known.
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A community album
Where preparation becomes connection.
From a shared table to a full room, these moments reflect a simple belief: practical care gets stronger when we make space for one another.
















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A practical message, made personal.
Shawn speaks to faith communities, healthcare organizations, HBCU alumni networks, and corporate audiences about caregiving, Medicare navigation, and legacy planning.
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